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Oh! dear little pioneer mother, with toil-worn hands, now folded in peaceful rest, how could we bear to give you up; a great anguish was in our hearts and we felt that our mother's life of love and devotion to us would live in our hearts throughout all the years of our lives. She was laid to rest in the Lovelake cemetery in Macon county, Missouri,
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near her three little daughters, who had died so many years before. Mother was the second one of our little band taken away by the Death Angel. Leaving us at the age of fifty years and I was now in my sixteenth year.
Brother Dan and his wife, Lou, came to live with us that winter.
In October, 1876, Mr. Joseph Wren came from Illinois with his wife and children; three sons, Edward, Grant and Jake, and daughter, Emma, also a stepson, George Maxton. Mr. Wren bought a farm adjoining ours and we young people soon became friends and George and I became sweethearts.
That winter John taught school at Neutral. I continued at the home school and the next winter I kept house for father and Ray while attending school, while John taught school near Carthage, Mo. At the close of his school in the spring of 1878 he decided to go to Chautauqua county, Kansas, to visit a sweetheart, Miss Miriam Failure, a former resident of Cherokee county. He always called my "Hun," so he said "Hun, do you want to go with me?" and as my children often say, "Ma is always ready to go," of course I said, "Sure I want to go." With an old balky horse and a topless buggy, we started on our journey as happy as the modern young folks start out in their smart speedy roadster of today. And what fun we had; I'm sure it isn't half as much fun to walk for gasoline or be hauled to a station as it is to persuade a balky horse to make up its mind to go. After so long a time we finally arrived at Miriam's home where we had a very pleasant visit; but sad to say these lovers never met again, although very devoted at this time.
That same spring John went to Kirksville, Mo., and that winter taught school in that vicinity, attending the Teachers' State Normal the summer following.
In March, 1879, I went to Kirksville and spent the summer visiting with my brother and other relatives in that city. This was my second trip to my parents' old home town. Here I met my cousin, Alice, the adopted daughter of my father's sister, Mrs. Leo Nickles, and we spent many pleasant hours together; also I visited my grandparents, the Kelsos, and mother's brothers and sisters. Also I visited my mother's grave.
While I was visiting at Kirksville, brother Ray was married June 29, 1879, to Miss Mollie Stewart, living for a time at the home place.
December 14, 1879, Mrs. Peters as she was called, died at the home of her daughter, Mrs. Hubbard. She was the third of our pioneers to cross the divide, and was buried at Messer, near her son.
In the fall of 1879 George's brother, Maurice, and his wife, Maggie, and little son, John, moved here from Illinois. Their family increased to eight children, five of whom are still living. They are John, Frank, Dora, May and Grover Maxton. Maurice and his wife both died many years ago.
CHAPTER VII.
Romance, Sunshine and Rainy Days.
The friendship which had sprung up between our neighbors, the Wrens, young people and myself, was rapidly increased to a stronger
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emotion, for the young stepson, George Maxton. George was a tall, slim young man with dark brown curly hair and generally known by his nickname "Pretty."
After a happy courtship we were married at the home of my brother, Dan, who was living on the old home place, February 22, 1880. Thus sister Florence and I were both married at the home of brother Dan.
Our wedding guests included my father, brothers Dan and Ray and their wives, my sister, Florence, and her husband. George's mother and stepfather, his stepbrothers, Ed, Grant and Jake Wren, stepsister, Emma Wren; his brother, Morris Maxton, and son, John, who was fifteen months old that day; Mr. And Mrs. W. Roe, Miss Sue Hutsell, Mr. Henry Stucky, Mr. Billy Hutsell, Mrs. Anna Chestnut, Mr. And Mrs. Charley Royce, Mr. Ol Lutes and Mr. Jeff Ellis, justice of the peace and personal friend, who performed the ceremony.
It is customary to describe the bride's costume, and a description of my wedding gown might prove interesting to my readers. My gown was a light gray, part-wool, part silk material with small white figure, and was made with very fashionable polonaise, or a semi-fitted waist and overskirt made in one, trimmed with small pleated ruffle on the bottom and worn over another skirt trimmed with two similar ruffles on the bottom.
After the ceremony my sister-in-law, Lou, Dan's wife, served a sumptuous dinner, a real wedding feast.
Those of our wedding guests now living, summer of 1932, are Mrs. Charles Roe Medsker, Mrs. Ray Clem Irving, Mrs. Sue Hutsell Perkins, Mrs. Anna Chestnut Hutsell, Will Roe, John Maxton, Jake Wren and Mrs. Emma Wren Perdue.
We started life on a farm two miles east of Crestline. Our home was composed of three rooms downstairs and two rooms upstairs. Our furniture was very scant, comprising only the most necessary pieces, bed, table, chairs and stove. However, George owned the little forty-acre farm, and with three head of good horses, a cow, a hog and a few chickens, together with health and courage, we felt sure we would soon be able to furnish our little home as we wished. But alas, for the plans of mice and men; our losses began with a windstorm, which blew over our chicken house and killed a setting hen. Then after a hard summer's work we felt quite happy at the sight of a good crop ready for the harvesting. The corn was just ready for the husking, so one day George went out of the little kitchen door saying he was going to buy a husking peg, and imagine how he felt on turning the corner of the house to see a prairie fire coming our direction and our summer's work was lost. The good neighbors hurried to our rescue and succeeded in saving the buildings and with heavy hearts we faced the coming winter.
The spring of that year brother John went to Colorado to make his home. He lived there the remainder of his life, but returned to visit us several times.
On May 16, 1880, brother Ray and his wife, Mollie, became the proud parents of twin girls which they named Ettie May and Nettie Ray.
The next year we didn't have much of a crop, so we sold the little farm and as mother Wren was very sick we moved in with father and mother Wren and helped care for her for several months. In October, 1881, my father was married to Mrs. Susan Bassor.
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Shortly after his marriage on October 24, 1881, our first born, a little daughter, arrived to brighten our hearts and fill them with her sunny smile and winsome ways. We called her Lilly Mae.
In the winter of '82, Had Peters began the erection of a nice six-room house. We rented his old log cabin and part of the land and lived there for two years.
Again on June 16, 1882, the angel of death entered our midst claiming as its fourth victim our dear sister Florence, who was now the mother of two children, Oris Earl and Stella May. My sister's death was a very great sorrow for me and to her many friends and loved ones. She was a girl whose beauty of face and form and depth of character endeared to all. Her kind loving heart reached out to all with whom she came in contact and as my older and only sister she had comforted me in my youthful sorrows and shared my joys and romantic dreams, every gently leading me in my youthful experiences. If when I have passed from this life and my children can say that I have been to them what my mother and sister were to me I shall feel that I have not lived in vain, and I hope that my girls will have for each other the same love and comradeship that sister Florence and I enjoyed.
She was buried on her sixth wedding anniversary at Messer cemetery. Her young husband deeply mourned her loss.
After four years he married Miss Emma Richardson and she mothered his little son and daughter, and was a very dear sweet mother to them. They also became the parents of six children and after his death his widow moved to Joplin, Mo., where she now resides. The son, Oris Earl, died about seven years ago. The daughter, now Mrs. Lon Hathorn, still lives in Galena.
After a lingering illness of one and a half years with the dreaded disease cancer, George's mother was taken from us on September 3, 1882, and laid to rest in Messer cemetery.
A few years later Mr. Wren married again and moved to Chautauqua county, Kansas, where he lived the remainder of his life. However, he visited us a number of times in later years as he and George were very fond of each other.
Our little community was growing and developing rapidly. Miss Sally Hutsell Crane, one of my early teachers whom I have previously mentioned, was elected county superintendent of schools for 1882 and re-elected in 1884. Also Mr. Walter Lane, on of our original thirteen pioneers, was elected to the office of sheriff in '84 and again in '86.
CHAPTER VIII.
Shifting Sands of Time.
We moved from the Peters place in January, 1884, to Lehi or Stringtown, near Carl Junction, Mo., and with brother Dan and his wife, Lou, we engaged in the dairy business.
On April 25, 1884, another wonderful event of our lives occurred. A little son was born to us and we called him Earl Durwood.
About this time brother John made us another visit. He still residing in Salida, Colorado, where he was employed as engineer for the Denver and Rio Grande Railroad. The following April 14, 1885, he was married to Miss Kittie L. Cramer of Salida, Colorado, which place he made his permanent home.
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In June, 1884, we sold our interest in the dairy business to brother Dan and moved to Crestline, Kansas, back again in Cherokee county. George worked at various things during the three years which we spent in Crestline at this time, receiving the magnificent wage of one-dollar and a half for his own labor and that of a team. So you see our financial status remained very poor.
In 1887 we again turned our faces toward the farm and moved to an eighty-acre place one mile northwest of Crestline.
On July 23, 1887, our second son was born. We had previously decided on the name of William Harrison in case the new arrival should be a boy, but to me he was always my Willie, the mischief maker of the family, and many a laugh rang out at his cute pranks and witty sayings and he is still the family comedian.
Earl was just past three years old, waking up in the night and hearing the new baby cry he said, "issen Daddy 'issen! What is that?" George replied, "Oh, its just a chicken I guess," but Earl raised up very excited and said, "It ain't neever, it's a baby."
In February, 1889, I confessed my Saviour and became a member of the Christian church at Crestline.
We spent five years on three different farms in that vicinity. The children grew as children will, and the busy happy days sped swiftly by until finally our little brood were all in school.
We again moved to Crestline March, 1892, where George engaged in teaming and road work and held the position of road supervisor for twenty-five years.
Time rolled on as it does now, for time and tide waits for no man, I must go on with my story.
When Willie was eight years old our lives were again brightened and made happy by the arrival of the stork with a dear sweet little girl born July 26, 1895. Sylva Rye, we called her, and Oh! how the children loved her. She was the idol of their hearts. Lilly, who was now almost fourteen years old, had so longed for a baby sister and what a happy and loving little mother she made, always willing to sacrifice her pleasure to care for the little sister. The boys, too, were ardent admirers of the little lady's charm and many a happy evening was spent playing with sister on the floor, of course. She became quite a little autocrat, claiming all the marbles and tops, covering them with her little hands and crying, "My marbs, my marbs." Every night Lilly would rock the little sister to sleep and Earl would carry her up the stairs to bed until her little legs grew so long that they dangled on the stair steps. Each morning it was a grand scuffle to determine who should be the first to greet her at the stairway entrance. In the fall of '96 brother John came from Salida, Colorado, to make us a
visit. On his return he begged us to let Lilly go back with him to visit and also to have her eyes operated on, as her eyes were crossed and very weak. We were glad to take advantage of this opportunity and Lilly remained in Colorado for several months, the operation proving a great
success and blessing for her.
My stepmother died in January, 1899. After her death my father went to live with his granddaughter, Nettie Clem Aimes, who had married Fred Aimes and lived in Joplin, Mo. He made his home with them for two years.
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The fifth of our little band of thirteen pioneers was now called to the other shore. Mrs. Lottie Peters Hubbard died November 4, 1900, and was greatly mourned by her husband and three children, Daisy, Lucy and Hubert, and her only remaining brother, Had Peters. She was a woman of gentle loving character and sterling worth, a helpful and inspiring friend to all. She, too, was laid to rest in the Messer cemetery by the side of her mother and brother.
CHAPTER IX.
Building a New Home.
We trudged along in the same old rut until 1900, when we came to a momentous decision. We had purchased a lot, and we now decided to erect a home. After much planning and scheming we completed four rooms of the new dwelling and on December 12, 1900, we moved into our new home. As the
years passed by the completion of an upstairs and a new kitchen gave us a nine-room house.
The children were all so happy over the thought of having a home of our own, as we had lived in rented houses for so long. Sylva said, "Mama, will it be bad luck for me to take my kitty with me? It won't hurt if it just follows me, will it?" So she took particular pains to see that her kitty followed her to the new home. The next summer the poor little kitty passed out and Sylva and her little friends decided to have a real funeral for her. Using an old shovel as a hearse, with song and prayer and many real tears the poor little kitten's body was placed in the little grave which was covered with wild flowers.
In the fall of 1901 Sylva started to school with the boys has her proud escorts. George still continued in the road work. We usually kept one or two cows, a few chickens and raised our own garden. Beside caring for the family, raising chickens and helping with the garden, I was engaged as our little town dressmaker, which I followed for over twenty years, thus helping to pay for many of the improvements of our new home.
Our new country was growing and developing rapidly. Many homes and business buildings were erected in the settlements of Columbus, Crestline and Baxter Springs. A number of churches and schools were built. In 1901 the Katy Railroad built a line from Parsons, Kan., to Joplin, Mo., passing through Columbus and Galena and also crossing the Had Peters farm. A short time later my father came to live with us and brother Dan alternately and continued to do so until his death. In 1904 he decided to make a visit to his old home at Kirksville and see his last and only remaining brother, Mike. Also old friends and relatives. While there he took sick with pneumonia fever. John, Dan and later myself were called to his bedside. By careful nursing he improved and the two boys returned home, while I remained for three weeks until he was able to return with me. This was my third trip to Kirksville, Mo., our old home, and while there I met many friends and relatives.
The angel of death again appears in our midst to claim the only remaining member of the pioneer Peters family and the sixth member of our band of thirteen. William H., or Had Peters as he was better known, passed away August 15, 1905, leaving his wife, Mrs. Ellen Peters, and three children, Art, Myrtle and Will, to mourn his loss. He was a
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man who was widely known, loved and honored throughout the entire country, having served as county commissioner for three consecutive terms, from 1895 to 1904, nine years in all. He, too, was laid to rest in the Messer cemetery and thus this cemetery became the resting place of the entire pioneering Peters family.
CHAPTER X.
Drifting From Home.
The years rolled on and our little family grew older. The boys completed the grade school and worked on neighboring farms, saving their slim earnings until they had accumulated about $200 each, which they planned to use in securing a business education. Accordingly Earl entered the business college at Sedalia, Mo., and Willie went to Webb City Business College. This was the fall of 1905. Earl finished his course in March, 1906, and returned home, but Willie was unable to finish his course because of the failure of the Webb City college, which went bankrupt in February. However, he was fortunate enough to secure a position with the Frisco railroad at Webb City the following week, remaining until the following September when he was transferred to Joplin, where he has remained ever since.
About this time our oldest daughter, Lilly, met a young man, Will Cook from Springfield, Mo., who was employed in our neighborhood. An ardent courtship followed and soon the young couple came to us to secure our consent to their marriage in the near future. About a week before the marriage Willie met us at Galena and we had a family picture made before the home ties were broken. At a quiet home wedding our daughter Lilly and Will Cook were united in marriage March 18, 1906. The Rev. Atherton, Methodist minister and our next door neighbor, performed the ceremony in the presence of our immediate family and the following guests: My father, Mr. Henry Clem; Brother Dan and his wife, Brother Ray, Mrs. Atherton and Dora Maxton. Lilly wore a simple white dress and looked very sweet to us who loved her so dearly. They left the following day for Mound Valley, Kan., where they lived for several months, then moved to Carl Junction, Mo., where they still reside.
The following fall Earl left home again to work for the Frisco railroad at Joplin. This left our little family circle very much depleted as there remained only our little daughter Sylva to keep us company. About this time the rural telephone system was inaugurated and telephones were installed in many homes in Crestline and vicinity. This was a great convenience for both the business and social life of the community.
In the spring of 1908 my father again became seriously ill. Fearing the worst, we sent for brother John in Colorado, also Dan and Ray hastened to his bedside. He passed away after two weeks' sickness, on March 28, being his eighty-fifth year. Another of our pioneers had left us, the seventh number of our little band to cross the great divide. There remained only we four children, John, Dan, Ray and myself, beside a number of grandchildren to mourn the loss of a dear and loving father. We laid him to rest in the Messer cemetery beside many of the other pioneer fathers and mothers of the community.
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In the fall of 1908 another great convenience came to our community. Natural gas was piped in and Oh! how wonderful it was. It rapidly replaced the wood and coal stoves and the oil lights and everyone was delighted with the change.
In the spring of 1909 our son, Willie, was married to Miss Edna Chenoweth of Joplin, Mo., at the home of her parents, Mr. and Mrs. T. N. Chenoweth. The wedding took place at 2 o'clock in the afternoon of May 2, in the presence of relatives of the two families and a few intimate friends. The bridal couple was attended by Miss Mary Slutter as bridesmaid and Mr. Joseph Kitto as best man, with Mrs. Nell Atkinson playing the Lohengren wedding march. Refreshments were served, after which the wedding party accompanied the young couple to their cozily furnished new home at 2025 Kentucky avenue, Joplin. The guests were Mr. and Mrs. T. N. Chenoweth, Mr. and Mrs. George Maxton, Mrs. Sarah Bennett (grandmother of the bride), Mr. and Mrs. W. H. Cook, Mr. Earl Maxton, Miss Sylva Maxton, Mr. and Mrs. C. B. Chenoweth, Mr. and Mrs. Ed Atkinson, Miss Mary Slutter, Mr. Joe Kitto, Miss Theodora Wooten, Messers. Clyde and Don Douglass and the Rev. Barnett, Christian minister who performed the ceremony.
Out little daughter Sylva was now a young lady of fifteen years and ready for high school. So with lonely hearts and dining table set for two, we faced the winter of 1909, for Sylva needs must leave the home roof and go to Columbus to high school.
However, we were filled with a joyful anticipation, for the stork was soon to arrive with our first grandchild. Accordingly on November 26, 1909, a little son was born to our daughter, Lilly, and her husband. He was such a delicate, frail, little mite that we hardly dared hope that we might keep him. But as time passed on he grew stronger and from the little babe of four and one-half pounds he has grown to sturdy manhood, our first grandson, Loyd Elmer Cook.
Although now all our birds were flown from home, Christmas brought them all back again, with the addition of son-in-law, Will Cook, and little grandson, Loyd, on his first trip to Grandmothers, and our new daughter-in-law, Edna. This established a custom and all through the years the family gathered to the old home at Christmas time for a day of merriment, feasting and happy reunion.
Our thirtieth wedding anniversary was approaching and we decided to celebrate in gala fashion. As at our wedding long ago, we planned a wedding dinner. The date, February 22, was Washington's birthday, so each was presented with a tiny silk flag. The place cards were painted by a friend and neighbor, Mrs. Minnie Nolan, using the George Washington hatchet and cherry tree for decoration. Preceding the dinner a mock wedding ceremony was performed beneath a canopy of red, white and blue, by Mr. Charley Gray; our daughter, Sylva, playing the wedding march. Mr. Gray succeeded in making the wedding ceremony both serious and amusing so that it was quite a pleasant occasion. The children presented us with a comfortable rocking chair each, while the other guests presented us with a fine set of silverware. Our guests were our children: Mr. and Mrs. W. H. Cook and son, Loyd; Mr. and Mrs W. H. Maxton, Earl Maxton, Sylva Maxton, Mr. and Mrs. Charlie Gray, Mr. and Mrs. W. H. Lane, Mr. and Mrs. J. O. Johnson, Mr. and Mrs. Earl Bray, Mr. Emmet Sproul, Miss Bird Sproul, Miss
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Martha Sproul, Mr. and Mrs. W. H. Stiles, Mr. Will Stiles, Miss Chloe Stiles, Mr. and Mrs. Charlie Reed, Mr. and Mrs. T. N. Chenoweth and Mrs. W. L. Haner.
The spring of 1910 our son, Earl, decided to come home for the summer and help his father put in a big crop. He returned to Joplin in July and has been there in the employ of the Frisco railroad ever since.
On September 16, we were saddened again by the death of the eighth member of our pioneer band, Mr. Walter H. Lane. He had stayed in our home the first year of our life in the new land away back in '66, and had remained a staunch and true friend throughout the years. He was preceded in death by his wife and three children and survived by a second wife.
Sylva returned to school at Columbus that fall and again we were left alone, but not for long, for in a few weeks Sylva broke down with nervous prostration and we brought her home to nurse her back to health and strength. She was never able to attend school again and we were all very anxious about her we could hardly bear for her to be away from home for a short time.
Again we became grandparents when a little son, Marion Clyde, was born to our son, Willie, and his wife on November 28, 1910. He was a plump little red-faced baby with bright smile and lots of wiggles.
Our hearts were filled with joy at the arrival of a little granddaughter on April 17, 1911, to Lilly and her husband. As Lilly had always loved her sister Sylva so much she could think of no other name so dear for her baby girl. But alas our joy was turned to sadness as the frail little flower drooped and faded away leaving our empty arms and passing from us on June 25, only a little over two months old. Budded on earth to bloom in heaven. Her little body was laid to rest in the Messer cemetery.
While our hearts were still bowed with sorrow for our dear little granddaughter another bereavement came to us. My brother, Dan, had been ill for some time and on the morning of June 9th, while attending to his morning chores, he dropped dead. Again the call was sent to brother John and he and his daughter, Florence, hastened to be with us. However, he missed a train connection and failed to arrive at the funeral hour, which was 2 o'clock the afternoon of June 11th. The services were conducted but the body was held until evening for interment. Brother John and Florence arrived at Galena at 7 o'clock and were met by Albert Stuckey and driven to Messer cemetery where he viewed the face of his beloved brother for the last time before he was laid in his last resting place, just as the twilight deepened to dusk of the summer evening. Brother Dan left his wife, Lou, and brothers John and Ray and myself, besides many nephews and nieces, who truly mourned his loss. He was a man whose friends were numbered by the number of acquaintances. The ninth member of our little pioneer band had passed on.
Just two years from the date of Brother Dan's death, June 11, 1913, his good wife, Lou, joined him in his heavenly home. Dan and Lou were never granted the pleasure of parenthood, but their big loving hearts reached out and took in two little babes to raise and call their own, but even this privilege was denied them as both children died in early years. Their lonely sad hearts reached out again and embraced a little orphan boy 12 years old, Fred Aimes, and they loved him as their own and
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